How to take it up the ass like a porn star: A woman's guide!

 I loved anal sex with my boyfriend. It was the most enjoyable thing we did together. When I started watching porn, I noticed that all of the women were having anal sex and I was curious how they enjoyed it so much. One day I was with my boyfriend and he asked if I wanted to try anal sex. At first, I said no because I didn't want him sticking his dick up there. But then he explained how pleasurable it would be for me as well as him because he could stimulate my clitoris at the same time which would make me orgasm faster than normal. I got on top and let him penetrate me from behind, but only went in an inch or two. He rubbed my clit while going in deeper and deeper until he hit my G-spot. With each thrust, he pushed himself further inside me. He moaned louder than I ever heard him moan before and I knew that he was enjoying himself just as much as I was. I felt like this feeling couldn't get any better, so when he grabbed my hips and pulled me back against him, shoving his entire length inside me, it felt amazing. 

I also found out what kind of sounds made him feel good. When he pulled out and shoved back in really fast one time, really hard the next time, slow another time; all those different rhythms sent waves of pleasure through my body too. One more thing that surprised me about anal sex is how much easier it is to reach orgasm. My orgasms are always intense, but with anal sex, I feel like my whole body convulses after climaxing. If you're still not sure whether you'd enjoy it or not, maybe try playing around a little bit yourself. Here are some tips to follow if you're interested in trying anal sex!

Lube, lube, and more lube

Lubrication is key for anal sex. It doesn't matter what kind of lube you use, as long as you use something. I prefer silicone because it lasts longer and is thinner. Keep in mind that some silicone lubricants are not safe with latex condoms, so use water-based lubes if your partner is wearing one. The anus does not produce natural lubricant as the vagina does, so add lots of lube. Apply liberal amounts to yourself and your partner’s penis, fingers, or toy before any penetration occurs. Insert the lube into your ass using a fingertip; then gently insert an erect penis inside your rectum. Get into position by lying on your stomach, squatting over his lap, or sitting on him facing away from him (I prefer this position). If you’re not comfortable inserting anything inside yourself just yet, have him penetrate you from behind while standing up or kneeling down behind you. Once you're ready to progress, move onto positions where he penetrates your anus deeper. He should slowly enter you only about an inch at a time until he finds the point where you feel pressure but no pain. 

Warm up with smaller toys

To start, use smaller toys like butt plugs or anal beads. These will help you get used to penetration and anal stimulation before you graduate to larger toys or full-size dildos. Once you're comfortable with these, try slowly working your way up in size as desired. It may be tempting to jump right into large objects, but taking things slowly will make your experience more pleasurable and manageable. Start with your fingers, and then gradually work your way up to other objects such as dildos or strap-ons. My favorite is when I'm on top while my man thrusts deep inside me from behind.

Relax your body- and your mind

I always recommend taking time before anal sex to relax your body and mind. This means taking some deep breaths, using an enema or douching, and using lube. You will have a better experience if you are relaxed. You should never feel rushed when having anal sex- if this is what is going on then stop and try again another day. It is not easy for many people but with practice, patience, and understanding of your body you can learn how to take it up the ass like a porn star!

Go slow at first

Anal sex is often seen as something taboo, or even dirty. It’s understandable that you might have some apprehension at first. But if you go slowly and pay attention to what feels good for your partner, anal sex can be pleasurable for both of you. If you are planning on going all the way in with one motion, you should probably take this into consideration beforehand by reading up on how to prepare yourself. Try it when he’s inside of you: If he has an erection, get him hard by giving him oral sex or by playing with his penis. Have him insert just the head of his penis into your anus. You could also use a strap-on dildo to simulate anal penetration while being penetrated vaginally, but make sure it’s well-lubed and designed specifically for anal play.

Don't forget the clitoris!

As for women, we have an extra erogenous zone that can be involved in anal sex. The clitoris is located just above the vaginal opening and can be stimulated during anal sex with fingers or a toy. The pressure from your partner’s pelvic bone against your clitoris can also provide stimulation, so don’t forget about it!

Final thoughts!

If you're looking for tips on how to take anal sex like a porn star, I hope this helped. But really, it’s all about finding what feels good and what doesn’t work. And if you don't feel comfortable asking your partner then there are plenty of resources online.